Continued pushing me over and pushing his head into my face swearing and threatening me.

He has threatened to kill me a couple of times but not during this particular episode. Another cool way to explore options should be to reach out to us to talk through your situation further. Our advocates will be more than happy to talk through what you’re experiencing, discuss local resources for support, and provide a safe place to plan your next steps. It sounds like a really unsafe and difficult situation that your friend is in. She will get So there’re many reasons why a survivor should choose to stay in that relationship. Seriously. She has to make that decision to leave, and nobody can save her from the situation. I’d say in case you are in contact with her you can let her know it can be an option for her if she decides to leave, in Tulsa, look, there’s the Domestic Violence Intervention Services and the 24 hr hotline number there’s ‘918 743 They’ won’t be able to send furthermore in public on a couple of occasions or in front of his 12 year old son. He has choked me unconscious, beaten me once in a night from hell where I actually thought I was preparing to die and he was telling me he was really preparing to kill me, has threatened to kill me a few other times, spat in my face multiple times, done thousands of dollars worth of damage to my personal belongings including my car. It can be really almost impossible to safety plan options being that your brain is in a constant mode of anxiety and fear, when you are in that state of cr. Anyways, it makes sense that you are scared to leave or scared to do anything really, since you are put down very much. Have you heard of something like that before? Never depressed, only just cycles through Mania, Euphoric Mania, Manic rage and somewhat normal behaviors. Notice, he has a beautiful intensely passionate loving side however has an incredibly dark destructive side to him. Now please pay attention. Its taken me 3 years i am still working on being normal but, u have to believe in yourself see different for your future.

Get involved in temporary job, meet new people, socialize even when you don’t need to. You must not have to go through this alone, and we’re here for you 24 hours a day/ 7 days a week at 18007997233″ or you can chat with us at our website nearly any day from 7a2a CST. You should take it into account. It sounds like your situation is really complicated, and he has made you very isolated from your community and family. Please how about to reach out for support, and to safety plan around ways to keep yourself physically and emotionally safe I’ve been through ain’t fun. And now here is the question. i have and do continue to seek for to understand and accept his ways, to love him unconditionally… at the cost of my life?

At the cost of my newborns quality of life??? Right?! My husband also went out of control beating our son who committed suicide at 22 three years ago. i am concerned that he did this beating without warning. i feel so upset that my own healing is taking so long. That’s right! His family told me that I needed to grow up and know that porn is good and just relax and accept this. Keep reading! What i had asked him was will he play catch or frisbe with Ben so i could pack his clothes for a 3 day camp, Ben was I am wanting to calm down and trust that my two girls will seek might be. He said that i told him to hit Ben. It sounds like you have let your daughter know your concerns, and simply stating those out loud to her depending on what you saw from him and his behavior isn’t a false accusation was through a lot in your lifespan, and especially in your previous abusive relationship.

What we know about abuse is that it’s rooted in control, and the situation that you are describing sounds very controlling.

We should be happy to talk with you about what was going on. However, you definitely deserve to always be respected, and treated as an equal in your relationship. That sounds like this tough situation. Please how about to reach out to us by phone 24/7 7 at 1 800 799 7233, or by chat between 7am2am CT by clicking the redish chat button in the top right corner of our website. You can find more information about this stuff on this site. It sounds like loads of us are aware that there are some really concerning redish flags in your relationship for emotional or financial abuse. Thank you for reaching out and sharing your story with our blog community, I’m so glad you found this site. Your situation is complicated and sometimes talking it through can there’re resources out there that should nevertheless we do not specialize with specific kinds of abusers types or abuse.

Our advocates are always here to help, if you need sort of support. Reaching out to your state coalition or local domestic abuse center should be useful resources, So in case you would like to try to find a more specific resource. Experiencing any type of abuse is extremely painful and all survivors of abuse deserve support. You can contact us 24/7 7 at ‘1 800 799 7233’ and we are on chat from 7am to 2am CST.

Thank you a lot for reaching out and sharing your story.

So there’s NEVER an excuse for abuse, even if your partner does have a mental illness.

Regardless of whether they have a mental illness or not, they have no right to treat you in that manner, I’d say if a partner is abusive towards you. Abuse is a choice someone makes if you are going to maintain power and control over a partner. It is the chat also functions with a computer, I’d say if it is an option for you. You can find the dark red Chat Now button in the top right corner at from ‘7am 2am’ CST. Certainly, thank you for being a part of our online community and for your feedback on the serious problem with the mobile chat!

It sounds like you’re in a really difficult and concerning situation and I’m so glad that you’re reaching out.

This is a lot to go through, and you shouldn’t have to do it alone.

We do know that threats of taking children can be a really common tactic abusive people use to scare their partner into staying, and I know what a scary thought that must be for you. Nevertheless, if you’d like to contact us directly we my be happy to talk with you about I wanted very much to understand him and to refuse the bipolar or manic labels, when my boyfriend’s family warned me of his illness after he blew up at me on the day of my baby shower.

Hello to nearly any soul who encounters this post….I am not one for labels, never been.

It sounds like you went through an incredibly abusive and unsafe relationship with your husband.

You did not deserve most of the abuse you suffered from him in the course of the relationship and you don’t deserve to have to continue to deal with his abuse even now. It’s so unfair that you are having to work through not only the emotional trauma of what you went through but also dealing with the financial fallout from his poor financial decisions. Gaining back your financial freedom or dealing with bad decisions from your abusive partner can certainly be difficult after abuse but I know it’s possible and reaching out for Surely it’s an important first step. On top of that, maybe contacting us directly should be helpful for deciding what as a rule of a thumb, do next?

Maybe taking steps towards ending the relationship like you seek for could really be beneficial for you and your ‘well being’, you always deserve to feel safe and respected in your partnership?

We are always here 24/7 7 by phone at 1 800 799 7233 or 7am 2amCT through our chat at http, Therefore in case that sounds like something you’d be interested in.

It’s not b/c of the influence of drugs or an illness, And so it’s as long as they have an underlying lack of respect for them, I’d say in case someone chooses to hurt their partner. There’re lots of people who have mental illnesses or who was drunk who do NOT abuse their partners, like you pointed out. Anyways, Undoubtedly it’s definitely not an easy decision to make and I can completely understand your hesitation. Sounds familiardoes it not? And so it’s true that if an abusive partner has less inhibitions under the influence, that said, this could escalate the already present abusive behavior.

Im sorry but the DSMV is fraud.

My room is invaded, weight controled, illness, verbal assault a threats, zero money, slander thats not admittable Iino court.

Its all on the basis of opinion. Whenever stalking and cyberstalking by friends, family and employers, alot ofcthese people are subjwct to electronic abuse by harrassment, sexual abuse, pervers, voyuerism and blackmail. It’s a well you can reach an advocate 24/7 7 at ‘18007997233’ or by chat everyday from 7am to 2am CST. Let me tell you something. Having a lot happen to you is very painful and I know it’s something you don’t deserve. That said, what actually is going on, mostly there’s nothing that would make it ok for you or anyone to be the victim of abuse. We are always here, I’d say in case you would like to reach out to explore your options for moving forward. Thank you for reaching out. Oftentimes it sounds like you’ve been through very much, and the trauma and pain that you have experienced ain’t something that anyone should ever have to go through. Keep reading. None of your father’s actions are your fault, that you have already had the self awareness to reach out for therapy is so brave, and your work to heal is something you can feel very proud of.

Thank you for sharing your story with our online community.

There is nothing that could ever make it ok for someone to be abusive to you.

We have advocates here 24/7 7 at 1 800 799 7233″ and we have advocates on chat everyday from 7am to 2am CST if you would ever like to reach out. Anyways, you and your family always deserve to be treated with respect. However, it can make it even more confusing to navigate abuse when your partner is on the Autism Spectrum. Usually, you deserve to have the support you need as you navigate this. Over the last 8 years he has abused me mostly verbally but lately he has slapped me on a few occasions. He talks about divorce but he has nobody else but me and I really feel nobody to was battling cancer for 13 years now and had been receiving chemo treatments during this time.

You deserve to feel safe and to be in a healthy relationship.

It sounds like you are in a really stressful and dangerous situation, and I’m so glad that you’re deciding to reach out for support! Actually the choice about how to proceed is entirely up to you, while the police might be better option if you are in danger. Then, it can be incredibly challenging to realize that someone you care about a lot is unwilling to treat you with the respect and care you deserve, and that you have taken those steps already is so admirable. Notice that what are my rights if I seek for to move back to my home country with my baby, I’d say in case there are any lawyers reading.

My heart goes out to those dealing with the neurological imbalance and to those who see the good through it all and love unconditionally… Any advice about support relevant to situations like mine would’ve been greatly appreciated.

Thank you for contributing to our blog community and sharing parts of what your survived.

What works for one abuse survivor may not So in case you should like to talk about your situation and to talk with an advocate. You had to be so strong in navigating the abuse you wen through and you deserve to be able to have support as you continue to move forward. Nearly any situation is different and there’s never a set way to feel or to move forward while healing from abuse. He will argue and totally ignore me for 1/2/3 weeks. Eventually, from the beging he hit me and battered me to a pulp.

He calls me accuses me now and then I do nothing wrong.

Can u please advise me.

He also gets angry and shouts at his workers. Ive been with my husband 13 years. He can even shout and get irate if his phone rings. There’re options that you can explore moving forward but ever situation is different. Abuse is something that is very painful and you never deserve. Now regarding the aforementioned fact… We are always here, So if you would like to chat with an advocate about your situation. Of course, his abusive behavior is a choice he is making and not your fault. Seriously. Thank you for reaching out. For him to be accusing you and to be emotionally hurtful is emotional abuse. Of course you can reach us 24/7 7 at 18007997233 and reachable on chat everyday from 7am to 2am CST. And so it’s up to him if he stops being abusive, you can control your behavior and how you choose to move forward. Furthermore, many of us are aware that there is nothing you could ever do to make it ok for him to treat you this way or to make him be abusive. You should take it into account. It’s also absolutely NOT a justification for him to become violent or emotionally abusive towards you, It’s unfortunate to hear that your partner was sick for much of the time you’ve been together.

It does not CAUSE the abusive behavior, while having cancer could contribute to his depression and stress. Thank you for deciding to reach out and share your story with us. He has money and I don’t, that also worries me since I fear he might get custody because of that. You followed that up with information that helps those in this situation discern what actually is truly a choice of behavior, as you stated abuse is a choice. Although, thank you for finally bringing an article to the front that addresses mental illness and domestic violence. Now pay attention please. He was extremely ‘self centered’. Eventually, asperger’s Syndrome. He always came to the wrong conclusions and we had constant misunderstandings. There was no way to resolve any problem except me getting exasperated and giving up, He thought he was always right. It felt like we were speaking different languages. He’d only invalidate my feelings with remarks like, just forget about it or what are you, a victim, if I told him something hoping for some support. He always blamed me, By the way I was always the one who was wrong and he never took one responsibility bit for the problems. Now I’m doing best in order to put myself into one piece again. He criticized me constantly and when I told him it hurt me, he’d say he was just very honest.

Hey, do not make really similar mistake I did by getting involved with a Asperger man.

Thank you for sharing your story with our online community.

Abuse is a choice that he was making and something you never should have experienced. For the most part there’s nothing that would make it ok for anyone to be abusive. That doesn’t mean that they become abusive, even if someone has different ways of communicating. It is having a diagnosis on an autism spectrum does not make someone abusive. Therefore, what you have described is very painful and emotionally abusive. We are always here, So in case you should like to chat with an advocate about your experience and to find support in your healing process. We are reachable 24/7 7 at ‘1 800 799 7233’ and reachable everyday on chat from 7am to 2am CST. With that said, on top of credit repair, u must push through stay positive, I’m almost sure I hear you love I have been there. For instance, you are absolutely right that abuse is separate from mental illness. Thank you for reaching out. On the flip side of things, I am being abused and I have severe mental illness.

We all learn like that.

Perhaps being that, they don’t seek for to look back or even think about it.

u can not see them mentioning them. More people than you know had to learn lessons just like this now you’d want to reach out to one of our advocates by calling ‘1800799SAFE’ that nobody else will believe them, since nobody else has witnessed the abusive behaviors, if you have any questions or concerns after reading this post. On top of that, dozens of funding to rebuild or train educate for school or classes for better job. You are gng to be just fine might be a lot happier when u have more gng on. Why can’t you get some sort of public assistance until you get on your feet?

So it’s absolutely true that mental illness and abuse are separate.

Thank you for reaching out to us.

We are here on chat from 7am to 2am CST and we are also reachable by phone 24/7 7 at 1 800 799 To contact us through our chat service please click the dark red chat icon on the upper right section of our site next to our phone number. You never deserve to be treated with abuse or to be forced to do something you do not look for to do. If you are needing to connect with an advocate to discuss your options please chat us. Wow, that sounds like an incredibly dangerous and stressful relationship for you to be in!

I would really encourage you to reach out to chat with us or call us at ‘1 800 799 7233’ if you feel like you have the option and it’s ever safe for you to do so, since your situation is so unsafe and complicated.

It’s amazing that you was so resilient and strong through everything, So it’s completely not your fault whatsoever that he is choosing to disrespect and hurt you like that.

You never deserve to be abused in any way, wether emotionally or physically. From what you described, I am definitely concerned for your safety and for the safety of your child. Now this sounds like this terrifying and awful situation! Please find her and. Remember, tulsa, OK was abused by a man named -. Also, he hits her and he was hitting her children. Her mom’s name is and lives at. Remember, he is a threat and is known for being armed so be careful.

She goes to her mom’s house often after he hits her.

This is all I can think to do.

Her name is -. Actually, please is to jail plenty. Now let me tell you something. What city do you live in? Just think for a moment. Turn into positive. Have you heard of something like this before? Just don’t give up or look up don’t be negative anymore. No man is worth lingering his misery around, u already paid price him. We’d love to talk more about this with you and direct you to more resources if you’d be open to chatting or calling, while a lot of our resources are targeted towards intimate or romantic relationships.

My husband is extremely verbally and emotionally abusive as well as has a couple of mental illnesses, however he does not admit the abuse or the mental illnesses. Internally I am still fighting extreme anxiety over my children. DCFS. Every since my involvement with DCFS I was mentally, physically, and emotional abused I will remain positive and reunited with my babies I Love Them Too much to ever give up /Stop fighting for them. Navigating an abusive situation can be really complicated especially when DCFS becomes involved. Our advocates are here 24/7 7 by phone at ‘18007997233’ or from ‘7am 2am’ CST through our chat in the top right corner at Thank you for contacting us.

You deserve to have the support you have to move forward and to keep you and your family safe.