Learn more at. Free Sample of the eBook Dream Interpretation as a Science. It was incredibly difficult to deal with adults who dismissed my struggles or treated me as if I didn’t know what I was feeling, as someone who was coming to terms with mental illness.
I have both praises and reservations about the effects of emo subculture.
On the one hand, it encouraged a great number of teenagers to get real about their feelings. We often look for to remind them that the situation is only temporary and that it’s possible to feel happiness and calm again, when our loved ones are struggling.
I understand why you’d look for to tell someone that their pain is just a phase. Love is a sociallyconstructed idea, and it can be interpreted in many ways. Now look. I often see younger friends having their relationships dismissed as puppy love. On p of this, deciding what someone feels -no matter what their age is -is awfully paternalistic and patronizing.
Telling someone that their love was not real doesn’t really make sense. Whether someone is truly in love or not ain’t important in this context.
The concept of an innocent, nave, un real kind of love somewhat implies that their relationships or partners can’t be just as xic or abusive as with adults, not only is this super condescending.
We need to listen to those feelings instead of judging them, when people struggle with emotions relating to their relationships. The question is. What struck me was that their parents nearly always responded to their mood disorders by saying, what do you have to be depressed about? That question is often unanswerable.