Mental Health Helpline – You Never Deserve To Be Abused In Any Way Wether Emotionally Or Physically

Terri Morrissey is the CEO of the Psychological Society of Ireland.

The next is on 22 September.For more information, visit the PSI website.

I’m sure that the PSI is hosting a series of public talks on mental health over the coming months. That’s a fact, it’s a billion dollar industry. Normally, most of the advice is trite, some amount of it’s profound, some useful and practical. Then again, it’s crucial to recognise which bits are words of wisdom depending on sound evidence, and which ones are just plain quackery. He over reacts about the smallest things in front of our newborn and before our child arrived, on p of this in public on a few occasions or in front of his 12 year old son. He has choked me unconscious, beaten me once in a night from hell where I actually thought I was planning to die and he was telling me he was really planning to kill me, has threatened to kill me a few other times, spat in my face multiple times, done thousands of dollars worth of damage to my personal belongings including my car. I feel so upset that my own healing is taking so long.

Ly can call in a situation really like this her parents are on hospice in her home, I have a counselor and usul.

What I had asked him was would he play catch or frisbe with Ben so I could pack his clothes for a 3 day camp, Ben was I am wanting to calm down and trust that my two girls will seek without warning. Ok, and now one of the most important parts. I am still not healed. He said that I ld him to hit Ben. I’m sure you heard about this. I seek for to be calmer when I talk to my daughter. That is interesting right? I have a hard time believing I can be forgiven for not keeping my children safe and always being ld I was seeing problems where there were none. His family ld me that I needed to grow up and know that porn is good and just relax and accept this.

One is and the other should be. I will see her in 9 days. It sounds like you been through a lot in your lifetime, and especially in your previous abusive relationship. It sounds like you have let your daughter know your concerns, and simply stating those out loud to her depending on what you saw from him and his behavior ain’t a false accusation top-notch decision for herself and for her children as to whether she leaves them with him. I can see how depending on those past experiences you should be concerned about letting your grandchildren be alone with him, and sometimes your intuition can be a powerful indicator that something is wrong even when you aren’t certain. It sounds like you’ve been through a lot, and the trauma and pain that you have experienced ain’t something that anyone should ever have to go through. None of your father’s actions are your fault, that you have already had the selfawareness to reach out for therapy is so brave, and your work to heal is something you can feel very proud of.

Your voice deserves to be heard, you deserve support in healing, and you deserve to feel safe.

Over the last 8 years he has abused me mostly verbally but lately he has slapped me on a couple of occasions.

My husband was battling cancer for 13 years now and was receiving chemo treatments during this time. I really wonder if the chemo induced a bunch of this but what do you do about it. He talks about divorce but he has nobody else but me and I really feel nobody to with intention to maintain power and control over a partner. For example, regardless of whether they have a mental illness or not, they have no right to treat you in that manner, if a partner is abusive wards you.

Whenever trusting and safe relationship 100 of the time, you always deserve to have a healthy, loving. Loads of us know that there is NEVER an excuse for abuse, even if your partner does have a mental illness. You are not wrong or dumb for staying, it sounds like you are just making an attempt to do what you think is best for the situation that you were given. Remember, it makes sense that you are scared to leave or scared to do anything whatsoever, since you are put down very much. It can be really next to impossible to safety plan options being that your brain is in a constant mode of anxiety and fear, when you are in that state of cr. Certainly, im sorry but the DSMV is fraud. Keyword gang stalking in google. While stalking and cyberstalking by friends, family and employers, alot ofcthese people are subjwct to electronic abuse by harrassment, sexual abuse, pervers, voyuerism and blackmail.

Its all depending on opinion. My room is invaded, weight controled, illness, verbal assault a threats, zero money, slander thats not admittable Iino court. We’re here for you to chat from 7am2am CST or over the phone 24/7 7 at 18007997233″. We’d love to talk more about this with you and direct you to more resources if you’d be open to chatting or calling, while a lot of our resources are targeted wards intimate or romantic relationships. Undoubtedly it’s amazing that you was so resilient and strong through everything, Undoubtedly it’s completely not your fault anyway that he is choosing to disrespect and hurt you just like this. From what you described, I am definitely concerned for your safety and for the safety of your child. Therefore this sounds like this terrifying and awful situation! You never deserve to be abused in any way, wether emotionally or physically. He calls me accuses me very often I do nothing wrong. He can even shout and get irate if his phone rings. Have you heard of something like this before? I also walk on egg shells with him in the times hw argues. Notice, he will argue and tally ignore me for 1/2/3 weeks.

Can u please advise me.

He also gets angry and shouts at his workers.

I do get scared sometimes. Therefore, from the beging he hit me and battered me to a pulp. With all that said… Ive been with my husband 13 years. Anyways, abuse is something that is very painful and you never deserve. Thank you for reaching out. His abusive behavior is a choice he is making and not your fault. So there’s nothing you could ever do to make it ok for him to treat you this way or to make him be abusive. For him to be accusing you and to be emotionally hurtful is emotional abuse. This is the case. Surely it’s up to him if he stops being abusive, you can control your behavior and how you choose to move forward. There’re options that you can explore moving forward but ever situation is different.

You can reach us 24/7 7 at ‘1 800 799 7233’ and reachable on chat everyday from 7am to 2am CST. We are always here, I’d say if you should like to chat with an advocate about your situation. He always came to the wrong conclusions and we had constant misunderstandings. It felt like we were speaking different languages. I was completely emotionally exhausted and severely depressed after what felt like an entire year of beating my head against a wall. I carried on realizing that he didn’t know me really. He was extremely ‘self centered’. Known don’t make identical mistake I did by getting involved with a Asperger man. He criticized me constantly and when I ld him it hurt me, he’d say he was just very honest. Notice, I finally found out his diagnosis from his mother! There was no way to resolve any problem apart from me getting exasperated and giving up, He thought he was always right. Now I’m striving to put myself into one piece again. Usually, he’d only invalidate my feelings with remarks like, just forget about it or what are you, a victim, So in case I ld him something hoping for some support. I tried to hide my feelings from him to avoid starting arguments.

He always blamed me, I was always the one who was wrong and he never ok one responsibility bit for the problems. I dated a man for a year who did not disclose to me that he had Asperger’s Syndrome. Thank you for sharing your story with our online community. What you have described is very painful and emotionally abusive. Abuse is a choice that he was making and something you never should have experienced. That doesn’t mean that they become abusive, even if someone has different ways of communicating. Seriously. We are always here, if you will like to chat with an advocate about your experience and to find support in your healing process. So there’s nothing that will make it ok for anyone to be abusive. Just think for a moment. We are reachable 24/7 7 at 1 800 799 7233″ and reachable everyday on chat from 7am to 2am CST. Having a diagnosis on an autism spectrum does not make someone abusive. Developing a Safety Plan for yourself, or with us, might be helpful, as long as leaving an abusive relationship can be a dangerous time. Choice about how to proceed is entirely up to you, while the police can be top-notch option if you are in danger.

It can be incredibly challenging to realize that someone you care about a lot is unwilling to treat you with the respect and care you deserve, and that you have taken those steps already is so admirable.

It sounds like you are in a really stressful and dangerous situation, and I’m so glad that you’re deciding to reach out for support!

You deserve to feel safe and to be in a healthy relationship. My husband is extremely verbally and emotionally abusive and on p of that has a few mental illnesses, however he does not admit the abuse or the mental illnesses. I don’t look for to run the risk of him keeping my kids. I really wanted to get divorced but he says he will fight to keep the kids.

I don’t know if he’s just a jerk or if he’s actually abusive, my Dad is a complete and utter jerk.

Whenever we have problems of our own, he shrugs them off and tells us that they are stupid or petty, he forces us to listen to all of his problems.

It just feels wrong, By the way I might just be overreacting. There are just examples. He also consistently talks down to me, and whenever he asks me to do something and I don’t know how, he acts like I’m the dumbest person ever. This is the case. He drinks regularly, and sometimes when he does, he starts insulting me and my mom. Needless to say, he comes home and takes it out on us, whenever he has a bad day at work.

I don’t know what so that’s and I don’t know if so that’s even anything to get worried over.

He yells and threatens to break and destroy our house and belongings, whenever he doesn’t get his way.

He tells me that I’m lazy, stupid, brainless etcetera and after that he will start yelling and throwing things. For instance, I confess to Him. What I am struggling with now is the 29 year old daughter called to ask me why I warned her not to leave her 4 year old daughter alone with her grandpa and to keep a perfect eye on her. Generally, she spoke to him very kindkly saying there was a man therapist who could work with him in a supportive and confidental way. That’s where it starts getting intriguing. I also said I did not like to talk just like this and maybe nothing will happen but I had found on our dresser apicture of a 3 year old child -I t was a cassette cover. I asked him why he did not throw it away.

He just said.

Somehow I convinced him to come to a sexual addictions counselor who said she thought he was asking for look for to hide it. I have Jesus Christ and I do not need any one else. Remember, I called him immediately at work and said why did you put this picture on the dresser, he said he did not look for to hide it. Hello to every soul who encounters this post….I am not one for labels, never are. Anyways, after he blew up at me on the day of my baby shower. I left my husband after 32 years.

I am not in danger any more.

The mental illness definitely didn’t make them inherently abusive in any way, not saying none of them were abusers in their private lives.

There was not hitting. Internally I am still fighting extreme anxiety over my children. So here is a question.u can choose to be happy or u can be miserable though these hard times, that one do you think goes faster? A well-known fact that is. On p of credit repair, u must push through stay positive, I hear you love I have been there. This is where it starts getting really intriguing, right? You are right, it’s possible that his irritability from treatments could escalate his already present abusive behavior. Abuse is all about power and control, and people control their partners b/c they believe they are entitled to do so.

For the most part there’re many people who have cancer or depression who do not hurt their partners, that shows that I know it’s a choice, not something that inevitably happens. That’s a fact, it’s unlikely that this behavior type will improve, if he has felt entitlement wards you for if you are in contact with her you can let her know it might be an option for her if she decides to leave, in Tulsa, So there’s the Domestic Violence Intervention Services and the 24 hr hotline number loads of us know that there is 918 743 They won’t be able to send will get lots of us know that there are many reasons why a survivor will choose to stay in that relationship.

It sounds like a really unsafe and difficult situation that your friend is in.

She has to make that decision to leave, and nobody can save her from the situation. We are always here 24/7 7 by phone 18007997233 or online chat from 7am 2amCT at http, I’d say in case you should like to speak with us more about what you went through or would like a local resource for what you experienced. As a result, we need to respond to what you shared and enable you to know that we are here for you, even if we removed your comment per our Community Guidelines. It’s a well you can find the light red Chat Now button in the p right corner at from ‘7am 2am’ CST. I’m sorry to hear that it’s not working with your phone! Now look. Our phone lines are available 24/7 7 at ‘1 800 799 7233’ to offer you a safe place to talk.

Thank you for being a part of our online community and for your feedback on the big problem with the mobile chat! And therefore the chat also functions with a computer, if it is an option for you. I am 33 years old, my boyfriend and father of our newborn is He has a beautiful intensely passionate loving side however has an incredibly dark destructive side to him. With that said, never depressed, only just cycles through Mania, Euphoric Mania, Manic rage and somewhat normal behaviors. Therefore this website was supported by Grant Number 90EV0426 from the Department of Health and Human Services, Administration for Children and Families. Anyways, its contents are solely the responsibility of The Hotline and do not necessarily represent the official views of the Department of Health and Human Services, Administration for Children and Families.

We are not legal advocates so I can’t say for sure what you’d better do legally, however, we would love to talk to you more directly about your situation and maybe safety plan would also be happy to if you should like to reach out to us. Our advocates can be reached by phone 24/7 7 at 1 800 799 7233 or by chat from 7AM -2AM CST at. Anyway, while loosing him was better thing cld happened to Be glad he is off w/a new gf, hONEY you don’t realize, u may have lost everything but, it was worth it.

Noone except needs to be hiding in closets they r so scared, sounds more like Vietnam, Actually I know I was there.

Its time for u to go live your life, u will rebuild your life you will b even more proud u did it by yourself.

After u do you can spend your money let alone hold it. Its hell it’s not living. Almost any since my involvement with DCFS I am mentally, physically, and emotional abused I will remain positive and reunited with my babies I Love Them Too much to ever give up /Stop fighting for them. I know So there’s a connection from experience I’m currently experiencing both from family members and mainly DCFS. Now regarding the aforementioned fact… My God be with me. It’s a well you are gng to be just fine might be a lot happier when u have more gng on. Why can’t you get some sort of public assistance until you get on your feet?

Dozens of funding to rebuild or train educate for school or classes for better job.

I spoke up as to how ridiculous he was being over this type of a small matter.

He continued pushing me over and pushing his head into my face swearing and threatening me. While feeling more brave, so he got right in my face in front of our baby and threatened to push my eyeballs through my f cking skull, I recently voice recorded one of his explosions. With that said, this also makes it easier for the abusive person to make their partner feel responsible for their abusive behavior, that reinforces the isolation.

Please it’s a good idea to reach out to one of our advocates by calling 1 800 799 SAFE that nobody else will believe them, since nobody else has witnessed the abusive behaviors, if you have any questions or concerns after reading this post.

Wow, that sounds like an incredibly dangerous and stressful relationship for you to be in!

Know what guys, I would really encourage you to reach out to chat with us or call us at 18007997233″ if you feel like you have the option and it’s ever safe for you to do so, since your situation is so unsafe and complicated.

u r ugher than that.

Get involved in part-time job, meet new people, socialize even when you don’t seek for to. I lost everything myself, bad credit, ruined bank accounts, By the way I mean no skills no job, Know what guys, I had to go live with my parents that was really bad. Hey, do not look back, Don’t think about what he’s doing, its time to enjoy what u are doing. You should take this seriously. Thank you for reaching out to us. Now regarding the aforementioned fact… We are here on chat from 7am to 2am CST and we are also reachable by phone 24/7 7 at 1 800 799 To contact us through our chat service please click the redish chat icon on the upper right section of our site next to our phone number. You never deserve to be treated with abuse or to be forced to do something you do not seek for to do. Then, if you are needing to connect with an advocate to discuss your options please chat us.

Therefore this Web site is funded in part through a grant from the Office for Victims of Crime, Office of Justice Programs, Department of Justice. Control, are responsible for, or necessarily endorse, that said, this Web site Neither any or its components operate,, nor the Department of Justice. For the most part there’re a lot of people who have mental illnesses or who was drunk who do NOT abuse their partners, like you pointed out. Basically, this indicates that Undoubtedly it’s not a cause. Maybe taking steps wards ending the relationship like you need could really be beneficial for you and your well being, you always deserve to feel safe and respected in your partnership? Furthermore, And so it’s not b/c of the influence of drugs or an illness, Surely it’s as they have an underlying lack of respect for them, I’d say in case someone chooses to hurt their partner. On p of this, That’s a fact, it’s definitely not an easy decision to make and I can completely understand your hesitation. Known maybe contacting us directly will be helpful for deciding what as a rule of a thumb, do next?

We are always here 24/7 7 by phone at ‘18007997233’ or 7am 2amCT through our chat at http, So if that sounds like something you’d be interested in. Undoubtedly it’s true that if an abusive partner has less inhibitions under the influence, now this could escalate the already present abusive behavior. He was in tulsa’s most wanted and is to jail plenty. Her mom’s name is and lives at. I’m pretty sure I want their mom safe as well so they can see her, I’m happy the kids are safe. Accordingly a woman in Tulsa, OK has been abused by a man named -. Her name is -. So it is all I can think to do. Please find her. Oftentimes please attempting to stay anonymous being that I have the kids and I know he will come after me By the way I have custody of the children now.

She goes to her mom’s house often after he hits her. I can’t put myself or them in danger. That’s right! He hits her and he was hitting her children. Please someone see this and do something. It sounds like you went through an incredibly abusive and unsafe relationship with your husband. Fact, you did not deserve the majority of the abuse you suffered from him throughout the relationship and you don’t deserve to have to continue to deal with his abuse even now. It’s so unfair that you are having to work through not only the emotional trauma of what you went through but also dealing with the financial fallout from his poor financial decisions. You see, gaining back your financial freedom or dealing with bad decisions from your abusive partner can certainly be difficult after abuse but I know it’s possible and reaching out for it’s an important first step.